What Book Club Is (And Isn’t)

This is a space for men who are here to grow.

We read to elevate. The books we choose aren’t just pages—they’re blueprints for transformation.

We integrate the material. Everyone brings their perspective, insights, and reflections to the table.

We challenge and support each other. No egos, no posturing—just real dialogue, real accountability, and real breakthroughs.

This is NOT:

• A lecture, seminar, or passive discussion.
• A place to just hear yourself talk—engagement comes from preparation.
• A networking event—this is not a place to pitch your services.

Rules of Engagement (ROE)

Participation.
The men who have done the reading lead the conversation. The men who did not complete the assigned reading are invited listen until the conversation is opened up to the entire group. 

Conscious Conversation.
All perspectives are welcome. This isn’t a debate or a lecture. We engage with curiosity, reverence, and the goal of reaching personal clarity.

Own Your Words, Own Your Story.
We use ownership language (I, me, my). No dissociation or projecting onto others.

We Support—We Don’t Save.
No unsolicited advice. If someone asks for advice, we don’t give answers—we ask better questions.

Confidentiality Is Sacred.
What’s shared here stays here. You can speak about your experience, but another man’s story isn’t yours to repeat.

All of You Is Welcome.
No judgment. Bring all parts of yourself—including the ones you’ve hidden. We value rawness, not perfection.

This Is a Brotherhood—Not a Business Network.
We focus on who you are, not what you do. No pitching, no networking—just human connection.

We Love, Even If We Don’t Like.
You don’t have to be best friends with every man here. However, you are expected to love everyone and respect them by acknowledging their presence and making them feel seen, heard, and understood.

Reverence of the Feminine.
We only refer to women by their first name or terms of endearment.